Mixing Martial Arts & the Road to Chi-Do Combat Arts

I started my martial arts career with the most obvious one, of course, karate, when I was seven years old. After about three months, I wanted to quit because I hated it. I found it boring, and I felt uncomfortable with the way they asked me to force my body into movements and structures that … Continue reading Mixing Martial Arts & the Road to Chi-Do Combat Arts

Damage Control

Don’t wait until it’s too late. There’s a lot of reasons people don’t want to participate in self-defense classes. They think it’s for sissies, that it’s ineffective and that [insert martial art of your choice here] will be better (It’s not). There’s still this stigma around self-defense that for some reason makes people think we … Continue reading Damage Control

Dissociation, Because It’s Easier

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like watching those really graphic videos of attacks and violence that people circulate on Facebook and Whatsapp. I would say most people don’t, but some people seem to get a kick out of sending it on, you know, for the shock value. But personal tastes aside, there … Continue reading Dissociation, Because It’s Easier

Quitter Syndrome

We all know how it goes: you sign up for a new thing, whether it’s ukulele lessons, tap-dancing, martial arts or just a new gym membership. You’re super excited about it and you throw yourself into it for about two weeks…and then suddenly it’s no longer fun. It’s hard work, learning to tap dance. The … Continue reading Quitter Syndrome